i gave up.he gave up.both of us did the same thing.he understooded.he knows.he didn't hurt me that much.it did hurt a lil.it will.i guess.but a couple of rounds round the track might do the thing.there weren't tears.the glands were dry.the heart was dead.life returns to the norm.we'll always be friends.longevity of friendship>longevity of relationships.sour grapes i won't eat.the impossible i won't dream.the very most would be living in the exact dimension where everything goes as norm.